Welcome to the Dating Personalities guide! This is a fun-filled, light-hearted guide on how to get a good date by understanding yourself as well as understanding how your date will behave based on his or her personality type!
As you might know, there are many variations of teachings regarding the personality quadrants out there all written by psychologists and experts in the field. This book is not a manual to self-enlightenment.
The information here covers two main points:
- Understand which personality quadrant you fall into
- Understand how to deal with your date or the person you want to date
When I first started dating, I didn’t know how to react to her – the object of my affections. I had no experience because I never went on a date before, and I thought that the way to win over my date’s affections was to please her. It sounded like a fantastic idea, but I made a big mistake: I saw her through the filter of my own personality quadrant and I made assumptions that what I like and what I need is what she likes and what she needs!
What happened afterwards was one disaster after another because I kept doing the things she didn’t like which I thought would be something which I did like. I learnt that I needed to adjust the way I communicate.
Unfortunately, things got so bad that we broke up but the lesson taught me how to deal with people better from then on.
Enough about me! Let’s move on to the juicy stuff now…
We Have A Date! 5
The Secret to Success and Happiness 6
Which Category Do You Fall Into? 7
Promoters: The Limelight of Everything 8
Controllers: The Power to Control Everything 9
Supporters: At Peace with Everything 10
Analyzers: Constantly Dissecting Everything 11
Setting the Stage 12
How to Date Promoters 13
How to Date Controllers 15
How to Date Supporters 17
How to Date Analyzers 20
Being Everything to Everyone! 22
Unannounced Bonuses 23